TONS of women have a pre-conceived idea of what boudoir photos are like. You might be picturing hella weird energy, not knowing how to pose, and thinking that it’s not “for you,” but that couldn’t be more wrong!! And that’s why SO many people don’t book a boudoir shoot. But as a boudoir photographer, I’m here to tell it like it is: your session feels more like a freeing, confidence-boosting experience with a whole lot of hype; not a weird, silent photoshoot. So, if this is your first boudoir shoot, this guide will break all the myths about boudoir and walk you through exactly what to expect. I gotchu!!

Boudoir Myths I HATE as a Boudoir Photographer

Most women think they have to fit into a box to take boudoir photos, and that couldn’t be more wrong!! So let’s get it all straight, so that you know what to actually expect from a boudoir shoot. 

Boudoir Shoots Are Awkward

I don’t want you to hear “boudoir” and immediately think it’s super stuffy or completely awkward, because, trust me, babe… It is NOT. Like, at all!! If I could use one word to describe a boudoir shoot, it would be FUN. Seriously, we have a hella good time in the studio during boudoir shoots!! We play good music, we laugh, and you walk out feeling hot AF. 

You Have to Get Naked for Boudoir

Listen, your boudoir shoot is all for you. So you can wear as much or as little as you want!! Whether it’s your birthday suit or a sexy leather number, I’m SO here for it. 

So don’t think you have to strip all the way down. Your boudoir session is all about what makes you feel the most comfortable and the most sexy, no matter what that looks like.

You Have to Look a Certain Way for a Boudoir Shoot

No, you don’t need abs to do boudoir. No, you don’t need to lose weight first. And no, you don’t have to be young. All that you actually need for your boudoir shoot is a spark, a good AF playlist, a bomb ass outfit, and me: your boudoir photographer/#1 hype girl!! 

Because boudoir is all about loving yourself. Saying fuck you to self-doubt, not feeling good enough, and society’s definition of beauty. You’re beautiful just how you are, and I promise, I’m gonna make you feel it!!

“Boudoir Photos are Just For Brides”

WRONG. Boudoir is for anyone who wants it. You don’t have to be engaged or be doing it as a gift for someone. Here’s your sign: it can be all for YOU!! 

A breakup revenge session as a “fuck you” to your ex? Yep! 

Just for a confidence booster? This is the ULTIMATE self-love experience. 

To celebrate a milestone? Hell yeah, I’ll bring the champagne!

You Need Experience for Boudoir Photos

There is NO experience needed to take boudoir photos. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, fix your hair, and even do the poses for you before you do them. The hardest part of your whole boudoir shoot will be filling out the inquiry form. 

Boudoir is Boring, and Everyone’s Photos Look the Same

Hell no. My clients’ boudoir shoots? FILLED with personality. As it should be! Boudoir is supposed to be all about expressing yourself, not fitting into something that isn’t you. 

If the classic white lace look is for you, LOVE that and I can’t wait to photograph your session! But if you’re a little edgy, a little funky, or a little bold, let’s create something as unique as you are.

Why You Should Definitely Do the Boudoir Shoot

Boudoir is so much more than just sexy photos. It’s self-love, it’s self-expression, it’s a boost of confidence. And every woman deserves that, no matter your age, body type, skin color, or walk of life. PERIOD!! 

So whether it is a gift for your partner, a gift for yourself, to celebrate, or just to empower yourself, I‘ve gotchu covered. You’ll walk away from your boudoir shoot feeling like the hot, badass woman that you are, TRUST and believe, babe. 

Wild Alchemy Photo | Boudoir Photographer Based in Tennessee

If I broke some myths you believed about boudoir and you’re ready to treat yourself, let’s do it, babe!! I don’t care if you’re 21 or 65, engaged or freshly single, or skinny or curvy; you’re gonna have the time of your life either way. 

You don’t need to know how to pose and you don’t need to feel confident yet. You just need to show up. I’ll take care of the rest!

Are you ready for it? Inquire about booking a boudoir shoot with your fave boudoir photographer right here. 

Want to know more before you reach out? I gotchu. Here are some more boudoir blog posts: 

6 Boudoir Photoshoot Ideas from a Unique, Edgy Session

Why Every Woman Should Take Boudoir Photos (at Least Once!)